Over it! My new rules for a relationship!

Happiest Friday babies! This is a jam packed post! I want to share my new rules for relationship, but first a little bit of heauxkeeping! In this post you’ve got the latest episode of “Hey Everybody!” where I’ll talk about some feelings that came up meeting Bun’s (my partner) mom for the first time. In poly, there are multiple sets of families that you become enmeshed with which is beautiful, but for me it also highlights the absence of my own. So this is a really big multiple truths get to co-exist moment. I thank you in advance for holding my heart tenderly through it! Also, on Tell Me Something Messy, I did my first Ask Messy Mom episode, which was a lot of fun and I hope you enjoy. Truly y’all have the range in your submissions. From lubeless DPs (double penetration) in a Brazilian bathhouse to actionable steps on how to love yourself. We go IN! If you haven’t, please Rate, Review, and Subscribe! It helps us grow our little show into something grand! Honestly, I’m giving my best Dr. Ruth in this below clip! lol

Also make sure you’ve got Messy Mondays at Night on your cal! This Monday I’m chatting with

The Conscious Lee

live at 6pPT/9pET! Hope you can join us!

Now for the main event! My Over Over Over Rule. I talk about it on the pod, but wanted to offer it in writing as well.

Let me start by saying, over the last few years I’ve stepped into this position of a kind of “relationship expert” which I hesitate to accept. It activates my