Messy Mondays
Messy Mondays
do not sacrifice your peace for a relationship...
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do not sacrifice your peace for a relationship...

how do you know when someone is worth dating?
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Happy Friday my beautiful, brilliant, badass heauxmmunity!

Next week is my birthday so to kick of my celebration (which you know is gonna be over a week long) this post is free for everyone!

On today’s mini pod, Hey Everybody! I’ve got an extra clip from last week’s Tell Me Something Messy w/ Cody Rigsby and Andrew Chapelle. We’re answering a messy submission about sleeping with a friend’s ex. Also, a wonderful friend of mine asked the most thoughtful question about how to know if someone is worth dating. I hope my answer is helpful to anyone on the pursuit of romantic love!

And in case you missed it, I was a panelist on After Midnight! You know Messy Mom was looking cute! Photos below, along with some music picks, and a clip from the latest episode of Tell Me Something Messy feat.

! We talk about mom groups, cuddling being overated, and interracial relationships with white partners. The interracial dating convo is a nuanced one that I was grateful to have with her.

I’ll see you next week for our livestream Messy Mondays at Night, with the incredible

(9pm ET/6p PT). It’ll also officially kick off my birthday week and my Substack Anniversary! That’s right baby, a year on this platform! As for my bday (which I’ve now mentioned THRICE) my plan is to take off from the 20th-26th and stay in a lovely hotel that’s like fifteen minutes away from home. Most Taurus birthday ever, and I can’t wait!

As always, thank you for being here! Love you so much!

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