Thank you for this. Messy Mondays and your book helped me come out to my husband last year- we are working through what me being queer means to our relationship, but we are open to the tough conversations and doing it together. Thank you 💜✊
Let’s elevate and get this part in front of everyone: “I don’t process my feelings about anything on social media. I process with Matthew, my besties, and my therapist. Why? Baby, you know why! You been on social media. There’s a lot of noise out there. A lot of opinions slung around as facts. A lot of reward for being unkind.” This is the therapy everyone needs right now
Fantastic question! We just recorded an episode for my podcast about this, but since that wont' be released til the fall, I'll write something around that question in the next couple of weeks. :)
Thank you so much for this. The last 6 months I’ve been reckoning with my no -monogamy leanings (after reckoning with my enby-ness just months earlier), and working through it with my partner of 6 years. Just this week we had a beautiful conversation about how this could work for both of us, and I’m excited, but we’re still keeping it mostly quiet for the same reasons you did. We’re still figuring it out, and hearing from folks like you is hugely beneficial. <3
I’m so happy for you and your partner stepping into this next chapter of your relationship. And yessss, privacy is so valid. Something so new deserves to be protected and nurtured. Rooting for you! 💗
Thank you for this. Messy Mondays and your book helped me come out to my husband last year- we are working through what me being queer means to our relationship, but we are open to the tough conversations and doing it together. Thank you 💜✊
yay! love hearing this <3
Let’s elevate and get this part in front of everyone: “I don’t process my feelings about anything on social media. I process with Matthew, my besties, and my therapist. Why? Baby, you know why! You been on social media. There’s a lot of noise out there. A lot of opinions slung around as facts. A lot of reward for being unkind.” This is the therapy everyone needs right now
You are amazing. Thank you for sharing. My question is... how do you all navigate this? Broad, I know.... but... how?
Fantastic question! We just recorded an episode for my podcast about this, but since that wont' be released til the fall, I'll write something around that question in the next couple of weeks. :)
Love this and love you! Thank you for always being so open and understanding and informative!
Thank you so much for this. The last 6 months I’ve been reckoning with my no -monogamy leanings (after reckoning with my enby-ness just months earlier), and working through it with my partner of 6 years. Just this week we had a beautiful conversation about how this could work for both of us, and I’m excited, but we’re still keeping it mostly quiet for the same reasons you did. We’re still figuring it out, and hearing from folks like you is hugely beneficial. <3
I’m so happy for you and your partner stepping into this next chapter of your relationship. And yessss, privacy is so valid. Something so new deserves to be protected and nurtured. Rooting for you! 💗