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Yes!! Going through my own heartbreak bc I swear he is that guy I compare everyone too but he truly made me love myself and know how I want to be loved in the future despite his ghosting and his lack of communication of not wanting to be a situationship. Your words remind me I’m worthy to be with someone who wants all of me and I can still have love for the one who ghosted me

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Absolutely! The most important thing is remembering your worth and loving you regardless of how another person behaves! 💗💗

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Wow this was amazing. Was really hit by "Heartbreak is just proof that you did, so wear it as a badge of honor." Thank you for sharing this!

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Thank you for reading and being here! 💗

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Loved reading this. I work in a call centre environment so I would read a line like « …I call these motherfuckers SALMON » then immediately get a call and have to switch to my professional setting

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It’s taken me a few hrs of my shift but I’m approaching the end now…I’m sorry how things ended but understand how lucky you are to have experienced a love so big your heart cracked to hold it. I understand because I’ve also lived it 🫶🏾

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Love when we can understand each other’s hearts! Thanks for reading! 💗

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That last paragraph... Thank you for helping me see the last ghosting I experienced in a better light. I blamed myself--a lot--but your truth is louder: something in him, not me, pushed him to do it.

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thank you for reading! so glad it meant something to you!

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Yes yes yes, a trillion times yes! And thank you for this reminder about ghosting. It is a difficult to wrap my head around (and not take personally) but as you point out, that's their problem, not mine!

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their problem, not yours! thank you for reading!

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